Om, Madna, Padna, Hum
THE ETERNAL CONNECTION
THERE IS AN eternal connection between the mantras
of the East and the affirmations of the West. Here East meets
West.
Mantras are found not solely in Buddhism but in
Hinduism and other Eastern religions such as Sufism as well.
Mantras are said to be protectors of the mind. Affirmations and
their use have become very popular in the West, having grown out of
the late nineteenth-century metaphysical movement. An example is,
“Every day and in every way I am getting better and better.” Over
the years that particular affirmation has been altered to say, for
example, “healthier and healthier,” or “stronger and stronger.” Now
they are popular in mainstream America as a spiritual tool, as well
as a tool to better performance in athletic pursuits and increasing
self-esteem, to name two uses.
AFFIRMATIONS — MANTRAS
An affirmation acknowledges the truth in us. Said
Charles Fillmore, cofounder of the Unity movement, “When we affirm,
it is to hold steadfast in mind or speak aloud a statement of
truth.” We don’t make the statement true by affirming it over and
over again. We affirm it over and over again because it is true.
The repetition is about steadfastly establishing it in our
minds.
The key word here is “steadfast,” when life appears
to be going to hell in a handbasket. One holds steadfast to the
truth of his or her being. This is connecting with the inner
essence that is never altered by circumstances. We hold steadfast
and do not waver, because when we waver we get wavering results. We
remain “strong like a tree.”
This establishes in our own consciousness the
truth. We do not, cannot, make something true by affirming. But by
affirming we are calling forth that within us which is already the
truth. Affirmations are the “yes” action of the mind. They lift us
out of false thinking into the consciousness of spirituality. In a
like manner, a mantra clears the mind of monkey-mind chatter so
that the clear mind of truth is available. Deeper knowings and
truths then naturally rise into this consciousness.
Science says we can only focus on one thought in
any given moment.
As I wrote these words in Hawaii, my husband rushed
into the room and said, “Sorry to disturb you, but you must look
out the side window.” When I looked I saw in all its perfection the
full arch of a bright and clear rainbow, all its seven colors
delineated. In Hawaii we see many rainbows, and I am so grateful
each time that each one holds wonderment and appreciation for me. A
rainbow is a visual affirmation of hope of the innate rightness of
our world. A bow in the sky is a promise of God’s eternal
presence.
When we chant a mantra or declare an affirmation,
we bring our minds to one-pointedness. One point of focus clears
the mind of all the extraneous contaminates. The chatter ceases,
and we can pause and exhale and feel peace and calm. I have become
quite committed to using mala beads and repeating a mantra the
suggested 108 times. One favorite is “Om, Madna, Padna, Hum,” which
truly clears my mind. If I am feeling troubled or disturbed, I hold
the prayer “I seek refuge in the Buddha, dharma and sangha” in my
mind. To make it less Buddhist and still engage the same potency, I
say, “I seek refuge in the Christ [or God], the spiritual law and
my spiritual community.” Gandhi’s constant mantra for more than
forty years was “Rama, Rama, Rama” (God, God, God). These were the
final words on his lips as his life force slipped away.
Mantras definitely clear out the mental confusion
and return one to one’s center. Tibetan monks chant particular
mantras, often a sutra, so that their minds do not drop into mental
sinking. We in the West affirm, so that our minds do not drop into
negative thinking, which is our way of saying mental sinking. This
prevents our minds from dropping into the Five Aggregates.
A sutra can be likened to a beautiful prayer that,
when chanted over years, can bring enlightenment. When a group of
monks chant a beautiful sutra, they really are, we could say,
affirming the truth of that sutra in their lives and in the lives
of all sentient beings. For this is how they pray, always including
all others.
When I feel stressed, a favorite affirmation of
mine is, “I abide in the light and joy and peace of God.” This is
the truth, and when I feel stressed I affirm it often. Let’s
suppose you are having a really difficult day, one filled with
stress and upsets. Instead of declaring “I am stressed” over and
over, simply affirm, “I abide in light and joy and peace” over and
over. Repeating this will create a shift in consciousness and in
your perceptions and experience. Your focus has shifted from the
stress to the inner truth of your being, which is light and joy and
peace.
We can see the similarities found in the two
seemingly different paths. When we look deeply, we can see the
common vein of truth running through various spiritual teachings.
Of course there are differences in the language and the practice,
but the nugget of truth within both is identical.
One of my favorite affirmations that my husband and
I have practiced throughout the years is “I love you, God,”
affirming our love for God, our connection with God. It stills the
chatter and reconnects us at any moment we choose to focus on the
Divine.
A frequently chanted sutra from the Heart of Wisdom
Sutra is:
Form is emptiness.
Emptiness is form.
When an experience feels empty for you, check this
out. Have you not attempted to fill it with form, and the whole
situation came up lacking? It is empty of inherent meaning. It does
not mean anything. On this earth plane we can get so easily
confused when we think we are our possessions, our degrees, our
lifestyle, our careers, our wealth. The Buddhists keep saying they
are all empty. Don’t be tricked. Form is emptiness. Flip it
over and Emptiness is form. They are the same.
Anything that does not endure forever is empty. How
incredibly freeing this sutra has been for me. It has enabled me to
shift my relationship to things. I am not an ascetic in this
lifetime, nor have I any desire to be one. I enjoy beauty and
creature comforts, but I know from the depths of my being that they
do not define me. I have learned in the letting go of my
attachments has come the greater and easier flow of blessings and
miracles in my life.
Here is a recent example from my life. We had lived
in our Ohio residence, a condo on Lake Erie, for fourteen years. My
husband, David, said he had a “less than zero desire to move.” On
the other hand, I had wanted to move and have a home and garden for
several years. Then we purchased a second residence in Hawaii.
Well, I got my home, even if it was six thousand miles away. I
simply let go of the thought of moving. Form is Emptiness.
Emptiness is form.
Then three years passed, and on a fluke a realtor
from my congregation and I were going to take a look at a nearby
home that was on the market. She knew we were not in the market to
buy because of David’s “less than zero” interest. So we were going
to see this house just out of curiosity, and just as we were about
to leave, David came home and announced, “Oh, I’ll go along. I
don’t have anything else to do right now.”
We arrived at the house for sale, and it was
absolutely beautiful, filled with light, with high ceilings,
skylights, brightness, openness, airiness, soft colors . . . and
David fell for it! He immediately said, “Let’s buy it.” I was
stunned. And to make a not-too-long story shorter, in ten days the
deal was closed. We didn’t spend six months of our lives looking at
possible homes. We did not look at dozens of homes. There was no
inner struggle, no angst at leaving our old and lovely condo. There
was no attachment, going or arriving.
Our new home is beautiful, inviting, nurturing,
serene . . . and it is form. And David and I know it is form. As a
metaphysical teacher, I know the principle well. We can have
whatever we want. And while having it, we might as well make it
pretty and enjoyable. But we don’t get attached to it, for therein
lies the pitfall.
Jesus said not to lay up your treasures where moths
and rust will destroy them. Do not lay up your treasures (those
that are truly valuable in your life, in the impermanent, in the
illusionary), for they will prove to be empty, and the day will
come when we all see the emptiness of form. For some this
realization does not come until the moment of death. Often I have
witnessed those filled with remorse or still in denial while on
their deathbeds. This is truly sad. What were their lives all
about? Don’t miss your soul’s growth in this lifetime by
overlooking the truly valuable.
Here is a great shopping exercise. As you are
browsing through merchandise, and the thought rises that you have
to have some particular thing, just stop yourself and silently
affirm, “(Name this thing you want) Form is emptiness. Emptiness is
form.” Use this mantra to shift your internal perception.
Understanding the union between emptiness and form
leads us to an understanding of ultimate truth. This is what it
takes to wake up—ultimate truth. Ultimate truth leads to nirvana—a
pretty, happy life of love, joy, service, peace, compassion,
equanimity, knowing, fulfillment and bliss.
I encourage you to purchase mala beads at a special
store that sells holy objects, or go to my church’s website,
unitygreatercleveland.com.
Click on bookstore, and you can order them there. Once you have
your own mala beads, which work far better at keeping count than
fingers, use them at least once daily. With a short mantra or
affirmation, it takes about four minutes for 108 repetitions. These
four short minutes to center yourself in the morning can make all
the difference in your day and ultimately for the world. Four
minutes to center yourself and pray. Aren’t you worth four
minutes?
As I added these notes to my computer manuscript, I
just glanced at the manuscript page number—108—the number of prayer
beads on a mala—108—the sacred Buddhist number. I love this kind of
cosmic confirmation. May we all get it. May we all be happy.