C HAPTER S EVEN

I guess you could say that Jake was an accident, but you’d have to take it further than that and go all the way back to a series of circumstances that toppled like a row of dominoes toward the life we all now struggle through.

I met Jake’s mother at a press event with a little bit of an intellectual crossover. It was the screening of a high-brow, low-budget film about some Puerto Rican poet whose name does not escape me, because I never had it trapped in the first place. Anyway, the Star’s movie reviewer had no intention of covering the screening, so he offered me his free pass to the film. I went because nothing better was happening that night. I was tired of chasing waitresses and copygirls, and figured this might be a way to fish in unexplored waters.

I was an awful person, glib and shallow, interested only in drunken good times and uncomplicated sex, if there is any such thing. I’m amazed that any woman had anything to do with me. I’d never really had a relationship before, nor was I interested in one. All I cared about was the next thrill, if only because it led to the thrill after that one. And it wasn’t as if I was some kid—by this time, I was well past thirty. If a fortune-teller had told me that I was going to meet my future wife at this event, I’d have laughed in his face and demanded a refund. I wasn’t in the market for a wife, then or ever.

The minute I got to the screening, I knew I’d made a mistake. It had drawn an intellectual-looking crowd, a lot of beards and bifocals—but what the hell, I was there already, and decided to give the movie a shot.

I fell asleep minutes after the lights went down—subtitles do that to me, I just can’t help it—and when the lights came up I figured the night was a bust. I was going to go home but they’d set up a wine and cheese table in the lobby so that everybody could stand around and discuss what we’d just seen, and that’s where I first set eyes on Doris Perez.

She had long dark hair that tumbled down her back like a basket of hastily dumped snakes, and she looked both bored and superior, an irresistible combination for a tabloid reporter eager for sex without courtship.

I struck up a conversation with her at the wine table, or maybe she struck it up with me. She was a professor in the Romance Languages Department at Columbia University, and she didn’t think much of the film they’d just shown. Then she asked for my opinion of it.

“It was a little slow,” I offered.

“That’s amazing,” Doris replied.

“What’s amazing?”

“That you were able to watch it through your eyelids.”

Okay, so now I knew she’d had her eye on me before I ever had mine on her.

“I don’t know a lot about Puerto Rican poets,” I admitted. “That’s more like your specialty.”

Her face grew dark. “I’m not Puerto Rican. I’m of Spanish descent.”

“Have I insulted you?”

“I just want to make things clear.”

“Well, let me make things clear, too. I’m not an academic, like the rest of this crowd. I’m a reporter for the New York Star.”

She lost it. She literally put her head back and howled with laughter. I stood there and took it on the chin, determined that I was going to bed this broad, if only to make her lose control another way. When she stopped laughing she apologized, not meaning it, and went on to say that though she was not a New York Star reader she couldn’t help but be assaulted by its noisy headlines every time she went to buy the New York Times.

“I’m sorry,” she said, “but that’s how I feel about it.”

I urged her not to feel bad, that as far as I was concerned the last memorable person to come out of Columbia University was Lou Gehrig.

“Who’s Lou Gehrig?” she asked.

It was my turn to laugh. “Are you kidding me?”

“I assure you, I am not.”

“Greatest first baseman ever to play for the Yankees. Dropped out of Columbia to pursue a baseball career. They made a movie about it called The Pride of the Yankees. Now, that was a film. Not like this poet bullshit we just sat through.”

“Where is this remarkable man now?”

“Long dead. He had a terrible illness. They named the disease after him. He was only thirty-eight years old.”

“My age exactly. Perhaps I should be scared.”

An older woman. Hmmm.

I told her not to worry, that academics never die young because it defeats the whole purpose of tenure. She forced a smile and asked me how old I was.

“Thirty-three. Bad age for guys. Jesus Christ. John Belushi.”

“Who is John Belushi?”

For the next two hours we went at each other in a clash of ancient knowledge and popular culture, neither of us knowing anything the other knew, guzzling bad wine until the time came to clear out that theater.

We were both loaded. We piled into a cab and as soon as Doris gave the driver her address, we went at it in the backseat. I’m not a hump-in-public kind of person, but that time we came pretty close. The cabbie kept the meter running after we stopped, patient as a priest while Doris and I buttoned and zipped ourselves up. Then we raced up to her apartment to complete what we’d begun on the ride uptown.

It was nasty sex, I’m-better-than-you sex, take-that sex. In other words, it was excellent sex for first-time sex, so exhausting that I didn’t have the strength to be annoyed when Doris wrapped herself around me before falling asleep.

I can’t sleep like that. I gave her a few minutes to conk out all the way, then carefully disengaged myself from her grasp, got dressed, and tiptoed to the door. A pair of startled cats crisscrossed the living room, a cluttered place with floor-to-ceiling bookshelves against every wall. I was careful not to let the cats escape, and once outside I actually ran the mile or so to my apartment, though I was dead tired.

My feet must have known something that had not yet reached my brain. Flee, said the feet—flee before you get tangled up in something you’ll regret.

I fled, but I came back the next night, and the night after that, if only to try and get the last word in a conflict with no end. Somehow, with nobody’s consent, Doris and I became a couple, a “you say to-may-to, and I say to-mah-to” couple. I brought her to my world of knuckle-walking, side-of-the-mouth newspapermen, and she took me for supervised visits into the world of academic dinner parties, where people who’d actually died years earlier managed to show up to eat and drink, buoyed by tenure, the only force in the universe greater than death itself.

I wasn’t having a good time. On the other hand, I wasn’t having a bad time, either. That was the problem. We didn’t fight—we grumbled. That’s not such a good thing, because you never really blow your pipes clean the way you do with a knock-down, drag-out fight. So here I was, a man who’d never had a real relationship before, seriously involved for the first time with a woman who couldn’t have been more wrong for me—all because we didn’t have the steam to build up to a flashpoint fight.

It was maddening. It was frustrating. There seemed to be no legitimate way out. We mocked each other’s worlds, little suspecting that we were actually mocking each other. That kind of thing never becomes evident until you’re a few months into it and the sexual stuff has begun to lose steam.

It came to a head one night at one of those academic dinner parties. These things were always held in the book-lined homes of professors who were usually married to other professors. Doris was a rarity among her brethren, the academic who’d hooked up with a civilian. Often I was the only person at the table who didn’t have a Ph.D, or wasn’t angling to get one.

I was also the only one who turned out a complete product in the space of a day, day after day. The academics seemed to have weeks, months, even years to complete whatever the hell they were working on. They used semicolons and wrote sentences that went on as long and as senselessly as the Crusades. Nobody ever forced them to boil anything down to ten paragraphs. They didn’t have to hit the mark, the way I did every time out.

They had grants, scholarships, endowments. They had six-month sabbaticals, yearlong sabbaticals. They taught three days a week, two days a week, once a week. They had off on Columbus Day, Martin Luther King Day, Veterans Day, Flag Day, Gay Pride Day, Doris Day Day…it wasn’t exactly a killing pace, which is why their pensions were so damn important. They knew they were going to need extensive medical coverage for the endless ailments of people who live too long.

They could barely believe that Professor Perez was involved with a reporter from the New York Star. None of them actually admitted to reading the Star, of course—but like Doris, they did see those jaw-dropping headlines every time they went to buy the New York Times.

“Good Lord. Do you actually work there?”

The guy speaking to me was seated to my left at a table for eight in an overfurnished, overheated apartment on the Upper West Side. He was a white-haired fellow with the thickest glasses I’d ever seen and a vest that bunched up over his bulging belly. He always wore this vest and was known, behind his back, as The Vest.

He might have been sixty, and he might have been ninety. He was drinking a great deal of red wine but didn’t seem to be getting especially drunk, so it was clear that he did this a lot. He taught contemporary American fiction at Columbia and he’d just buried his third wife, the only one of his wives he hadn’t had to divorce. He looked as if he could be dead in an hour, but on the other hand he had tenure, which meant he could live long enough to marry two or three more times.

“Yes,” I said to him, drinking Budweiser beer straight from the bottle, “I write for the New York Star.”

“What’s that like?”

“How do you mean?”

“Well, I mean…” His empty hands hovered in the air, like pudgy helicopters with no place to land. He let his hands drop, grabbed his wineglass, took a long swallow. “What I mean is, it’s such a…noisy publication.”

I had to laugh. I’d never heard anybody put it that way before. “Yeah, it is a noisy publication.”

“All those horrible stories! The terrible things that happen to people!”

“What can I tell you? Terrible things happen every day.”

“Yes, but—”

“But what?”

The Vest didn’t like being challenged. He wasn’t used to it. He couldn’t intimidate me with a failing grade or the refusal of a recommendation, so he had no muscle over me. All he could do was clear his throat and drink more wine.

“It just seems so unnecessarily cruel at times,” he said meekly.

That was a hot one, coming from him. Academics were capable of intracampus feuds and cruelties that would make a Mafioso lose his lunch.

I put a hand on The Vest’s shoulder. “Hey, let’s face it. Life is cruel.”

“Yes, well…I must confess that those headlines do make me laugh.”

“Yeah? You should see the ones that don’t make it into print.”

His eyes widened. “Really? Do you mean to say that there’s such a thing as a headline that’s too offensive for the New York Star?”

“Absolutely!” I swigged more beer, straight from the bottle. I was very deliberate about it, because I wanted Doris to see me do it. She was seated directly across from me, beside an ancient professor in a wheelchair who was plugged into an oxygen supply, the tubes running from a tank behind his wheelchair into each of his nostrils. Because of this guy nobody at the table was allowed to smoke, as he apparently had throughout the decades of his youth—three packs per day, unfiltered. Right now the old coot was fast asleep, so Doris had little to do but stare at me, glare at me.

Before we went to parties Doris always reminded me to drink beer from a glass, not a bottle—“We’re not going to one of your bucket of blood saloons!”—and I always grudgingly obliged.

Not tonight. This was a special night. This was the night I was going to break up with Doris, once and for all, and I knew it would help me to trigger a fight to get the process rolling. I wanted her to throw the first punch. A cowardly strategy, but one that had proven extremely effective throughout my turbulent love life.

Doris called to me across the table, in a sickly sweet voice. “There’s a glass in front of you, Samuel.”

I grinned at her. “You can use it. I don’t need it.”

I took another swig from the bottle.

The Vest patted my arm impatiently. “Come, then, tell me.”

“Tell you what?”

“Tell me a headline that didn’t get printed because it was deemed too offensive.”

“Well, a bunch of angry Hasidic Jews were threatening to block the runners in the New York City Marathon one year because the streets of Williamsburg needed paving. We had a photo of these guys standing side by side in the street, shoulder to shoulder, with their arms crossed. You ready for the headline?”

“Go ahead.”

“Yidlock!”

“Oooh,” chuckled The Vest. “Ooh, that’s good!”

I guzzled more beer and looked at Doris, who was now ignoring me, which is to say she was furious with me. We’d had six months of courtship, or whatever it was we were doing, and that was longer than I’d ever been monogamously involved with anyone—longer by five and a half months, to be precise. I didn’t hate her but I didn’t love her, and where does that leave you? What’s the point? You look at somebody and you feel that hollow sense of free fall and you realize that the only thing to do is get yourself out, first of all, and then take it from there, even if there’s no place to go from there. At least you’re out.

“Excuse me,” said a whispery female voice, and I turned to face the woman seated to my right. She was no more than twenty-two or twenty-three years old, with straight blond hair that rolled down her shoulders like avalanche snow. A mountain beauty, young and rough. Without looking at her feet I knew they had to be clad in sandals, even though it was the dead of winter, for this was the standard-issue footwear for the standard-issue graduate student, a must at any academic party.

“Excuse me,” she repeated, “I couldn’t help overhearing that you write for the New York Star.”

“Guilty as charged.”

“It shames me to say that I’m a big fan of the headlines.” She giggled, her sky-blue eyes twinkling with shy mischief. By this time the oxygen gulper had awakened and was trying to converse with Doris, who continued to pretend to ignore me.

The graduate student offered her hand and introduced herself. I held her hand longer than I had to, and she was in no hurry to pull it away. She was an earnest plodder struggling toward that elusive Ph.D, and without doubt she was doing research for one of the professors at the table, and possibly having sex with him (or her) in exchange for being taken under their wing. Terrible things can happen to a person under a wing, where nobody can see you….

I leaned back on my chair so I could speak with both The Vest and the grad student. This chair-leaning habit of mine was another of Doris’s no-no’s, but by this point I knew I was already in as much trouble as I could be in. The minute we got outside, I’d be getting it with both barrels. Good. Good. It was long overdue.

But first, I had a story to tell my two closet fans of New York Star headlines. I drained my beer, set the bottle on the table with a flourish.

“So,” I began, “do you remember when Andy Warhol died some years back?”

“Certainly,” said The Vest. “He was in the hospital!”

“That’s right,” I said. “Something went wrong after surgery, and he dropped dead.”

“Yes, I remember it!”

“We had a headline that was all ready to go, set up in type and everything, but it was killed at the last minute, and I mean the very last minute. Are you ready for this?”

The Vest nodded with genuine eagerness. I turned to the graduate student. “Are you ready?”

She nodded uncertainly but enthusiastically. I took a deep breath, and did a drumroll on the tabletop with my fingertips. “Pop Goes the Warhol!”

The Vest threw his head back and howled with laughter. He knocked over his glass, and a river of red wine rolled across the table onto Doris’s lap.

Doris jumped to her feet and glowered at me as if I’d planned it to happen exactly this way. She was interrupted by racking coughs from the guy in the wheelchair—she’d inadvertently yanked his oxygen hose loose. He struggled to breathe as Doris and three other dinner guests tried frantically to connect the hose back onto the tank.

The Vest kept laughing, totally unaware of the drama playing out right across from us.

“Pop goes the Warhol!” he roared. “Priceless!”

Doris finally got the hose back onto the tank. The old coot took deep breaths, and everybody settled back into their chairs. In the midst of this The Vest had passed out, his cheek to the tablecloth, a smile on his face. Through it all, the graduate student hadn’t made a sound. At last she cleared her throat and leaned close to my ear.

“Who’s Andy Warhol?” she whispered.

Doris dried herself as best she could with a napkin and told me to get our coats. Thirty seconds later we were out on the street on Upper Broadway, struggling into our coats as a light snow began to fall. She waited until she was buttoned up to the neck before opening fire.

“You complete asshole.”

“Didn’t you have a good time tonight, Doris?”

“The things you do, merely to antagonize me!”

She began walking home. I stayed with her, shoulder to shoulder.

“Don’t yell at me, yell at The Vest. He’s the one who spilled wine all over you.”

“You pride yourself on behaving like an ape, don’t you?”

“Well, I don’t know, Doris. Is an ape even aware that he’s an ape? Can an ape feel pride? If he could, would he truly be an ape, or just an imitation of an ape?”

She glowered at me, and I couldn’t help laughing.

“See how much I’ve learned from you, Doris? Six months ago I could never have come up with a bullshit analysis like that. Now it’s second nature to me, after all these friggin’ intellectual dinner parties.”

Doris quickened her pace. It was easy to keep up with her. “Your hatred for women knows no bounds, does it?”

“Oh, I hate women now, is that it? I can’t get along with you, so I must hate women.”

“Your mother must have done some job on you.”

“Shut up about my mother. You don’t know anything about my mother.”

“That’s right, I don’t. And I don’t know anything about you, either. Nothing that matters, at any rate.”

She was getting in some good shots, but that was all right. The angrier she was, the easier the breakup would be. She hugged herself against the cold, skidded on the sidewalk, and pushed me away when I moved to catch her.

“Why don’t you just go back to the party, Samuel? Go back and fuck Leona.”

“Who’s Leona?”

“The little chippie you were flirting with.”

“I wasn’t flirting with her.”

“The hell you weren’t!”

“She doesn’t even know who Andy Warhol was.”

“As if that would stop you! I didn’t know who Lou Gehrig was, and look at where we’ve wound up!”

“Yeah, Doris, just look at us.” I grabbed her arm, brought her to a skidding halt, looked her right in the eye. “Are you happy, Doris? Tell me, are you happy?”

She stood and stared at me, her hair dusted with snowflakes in a way that made her look almost angelic. She sighed, shook her head, shrugged her shoulders. “What is it you want, Samuel? Obviously you’ve got some kind of plan.”

It was time. I looked around, as if to fix the scene in memory. We were at Seventy-ninth Street and Broadway, and very few people were around. A skinny, bearded guy was walking a dachsund on a leash, the dog wrapped inside a plaid, tube-shaped sweater. Another lonely New Yorker, turning a pet into a partner to obsess over…

Doris waited for me to speak. The temperature had dropped severely since we’d left the party—it was cold, unbelievably cold. The snow was already sticking to the sidewalk like dust, with no wetness beneath it. There was an odd silence to the night, a silent but far from holy night. And then I spoke.

“I’ve had enough, Doris,” I all but whispered. “I want to end this thing.”

She continued staring at me and through me. Her eyes were steady but not tearful. She was waiting for more. I had a million complaints about Doris, but somehow, all I could think of was my own limitless list of flaws, and suddenly here they came, tumbling from my mouth.

“I’m a mess, Doris. I don’t really know how to be in a relationship. I don’t feel like half of a whole with you…I’ve never felt like half of a whole with anyone.” I swallowed, stamped my half-frozen feet. “You say I hate women…all I know is, I’m better off alone. That’s what I want. That’s what I’ve always wanted.”

She took a deep breath, and it was all shivery when she let it out, staggered and stuttery. “Are you sure about this?”

“Yes, absolutely. I’m sorry. I should have just come out and said it, instead of behaving like an ass tonight.”

Now at last came the tears. A nearby church bell gonged once, just once. It was one o’clock in the morning on a dark, desolate Sunday. Anybody in their right mind would have been home in bed, under the covers, but Doris and I stood there as if we meant to stay put until the sun rose. We should have had gloves and hats. We should have had scarves. We should have never met.

Doris held her arms out toward me, this complicated, tortured person with private pains of her own. What did I know about her? Her broken-English parents died when she’d begun her college studies, never appreciating her passion for higher education. She wangled a grant here, a scholarship there to make her way through with the rich kids. She cocooned herself within a fortress of books that would protect her from the cruel, ignorant world outside.

And I’d sneaked inside that fortress, not in a Trojan horse but in a Trojan condom. Now, at last, we had reached the final conflict. She took a step closer, arms still outstretched.

“Please hold me, Samuel.”

I did as I was told. We held on to each other tightly, in what felt like the last embrace we would ever share. A crosstown bus stopped at the corner where we stood. The driver opened the doors for us, but I waved him off, and he seemed disappointed. He was all alone in that big double bus as he made his way emptily toward Central Park West.

Doris clung to me like a barnacle. I’d have to figure out my next move when she broke the embrace. Would we part forever right there, at the corner of Seventy-ninth and Broadway? Was I carrying the keys to my own apartment, or were they back at Doris’s place, hanging on the hook beside the refrigerator? It would be awkward, going back with her now to get my keys, but then I realized that I’d have to go back there anyway to pick up my stuff—toothbrush, underwear, books. Maybe it would be better to do it this way, in one fell swoop. Everything I had would fit into a plastic supermarket shopping bag, no problem. By the time the sun rose, the break would be complete, with no need to see each other ever again.

I wanted to get moving toward whatever bleak and empty future awaited me, but I couldn’t do that until Doris broke the embrace, and that wasn’t happening. The snow was accumulating by this time, more than just a dusting. My hands hurt and my ears throbbed from the cold, but still Doris hung on, and then I felt her face move toward my ear in what I thought would be a farewell kiss on the cheek.

“Samuel,” she breathed.

“Yeah, Doris?”

“I’m pregnant.”

She said it flatly, matter-of-factly, like a government worker announcing the results of a lab test. I stared at her face and thought it seemed a little puffier than usual, a hormonal change brought about by developing life, the wiggle of the minnow within.

What could I say? I wasn’t even sure I knew how to use language anymore. My entire vocabulary had been blown away by this news. Gradually the words reached my mouth, struggling like shipwreck survivors wading toward a beach. “How…far along are you?”

“About three months.”

“Doris…”

I passed out right there on the corner. I don’t know how she did it, but Doris hailed a cab, loaded me like luggage, and brought me to her place, where a couple of gallons of coffee brought me around to the reality of a scenario I’d never even imagined.

How could this have happened? A hole in the condom? A hole in the diaphragm? A hole in my head that got me into this fix in the first place?

“I’m keeping it,” Doris announced. “No matter what you say, I’m keeping it.”

“I didn’t say anything!”

“But you’re hoping I miscarry, aren’t you?”

“Doris, for Christ’s sake.”

“I don’t expect you to marry me.”

This was something I hadn’t even considered.

“Do you want to get married?” I ventured.

“Oh yes. I’m just dying to spend the rest of my life with a man who wants to be alone.”

“Hey, Doris, come on. You like being alone, too.”

“Do you have any feelings for me at all?”

“Of course I do!” I replied, not daring to ask her the same question.

She stared at me long and hard before saying, “Your medical plan is better than mine. It’d fill in the gaps mine doesn’t cover.”

It was a wedding proposal, admittedly a tough one to put to music, but there it was. I swallowed, nodded, sighed. “Let’s do it, then, Doris.”

“All right, we’ll do it.”

No rings, no getting down on one knee, no proclamations of love. There’s more emotion at a driver’s license renewal than there was on the night Doris and I decided to make it legal.

I married her, and she married me right back. It was a City Hall lunch break ceremony, a get-your-ass-on-my-superior-medical-plan-before-the-water-breaks ceremony. We didn’t have a honeymoon. On our wedding night we sat in bed eating General Tso’s chicken and vegetable lo mein while Doris read a biography of Octavio Paz and I watched Animal House.

Our marriage was under way.

Having never given any thought to being a husband or a father, I found it a little jarring to suddenly become the first thing and have the second thing looming.

I gave up my place and moved into hers, pretending not to hate cats. As I said, her parents were long dead, so at least I wouldn’t be dealing with in-laws. If I was spooked by the idea of being married, I don’t remember it. I’d probably have felt spooked if I’d married Doris and she wasn’t pregnant. I embraced the concept that I had no choice. It was as if I’d been drafted, and there was an odd nobility in the fact that I wasn’t dodging the draft to avoid the war of holy matrimony.

I sold the situation to myself. You ignore the sinking sensation in your heart and tell yourself that something is meant to be, something far bigger than either of the people involved in it. You tell yourself this is God’s way of putting you on the right path, even if you don’t believe in God, even if you don’t believe in paths. Even Doris seemed to feel this way, and she, like so many of her academic brethren, was an agnostic.

I believed in God, all right, yet there were times when He really pissed me off.

But I liked Him fine the day my son was born. Ten fingers, ten toes, and a loud, lusty yell to announce his arrival into this Vale of Tears. Papoosed into a soft, snug blue blanket, Jacob looked both serene and annoyed, as if he were glad to be here despite the rocky nightlong voyage through his mother’s birth canal. The nurse handed him to me, all seven pounds and twelve ounces of him, and this, I knew, was the Weight of the World I’d been hearing about all my life, cradled right there in my arms. There was a voice in my head, and it was my own voice, speaking six words of advice, or maybe it was a command: you cannot be an asshole anymore.

I did my best to heed those words. I’d like to think I still do, but I also like to think that I have a decent singing voice, despite the pained looks on people’s faces on those rare drunken occasions when I break into song.

I wanted to get out of the city, or anyway, I thought I did. I had this idea of getting a house in upstate New York, with a big backyard and a rope swing for my son, and maybe a stream nearby for fishing. Jake would go to the local public school, and I’d work for the local newspaper, writing about early frosts and backyard bear sightings.

Doris wouldn’t hear of it. At this point she was teaching just two days a week, so she could actually have commuted from this mythological country town, but she wouldn’t even discuss the idea. We were staying in the city—case closed. In hindsight, Doris was right. Divorces are easier in cities, and Doris probably knew ours was coming even before I did.

In a lot of ways parenthood was easier for Doris and me because we weren’t in love, so we didn’t have to keep the flame of a relationship burning while we attended to our parental duties. We were two adults faced with the task of raising a child, or at least keeping him alive while he was in our care. I may never have been much of a husband, but I was always an excellent soldier.

I got up in the middle of the night to feed Jake, hold him, rock him. I changed his diapers at least as often as Doris did, and I was always happy to take him around the neighborhood in his stroller. Jake had a wide-open face and a sunburst of a smile he shined on anyone who looked at him. It always amazed me that two such contrary people could produce a child like that, a child who seemed to exist in a state of delight simply because he was alive. And it was amazing for me to see people smiling back at Jake as we moved up and down Broadway, hard-ass New Yorkers whose days were made better by the sight of this joyous kid.

Later on I did playgrounds. At that time I was working a night shift and didn’t have to report to the newspaper until 2:00 p.m., so the mornings belonged to Jake and me. I’d be sitting on the bench with mothers and nannies, watching my two-year-old son navigate the incredibly perilous waters of the New York City playground.

It was a long fall from the monkey bars, there was always some semi-psychotic toddler who threw sand in kids’ faces, and those swings! My God! How many times had Jake merrily wandered into the path of the swings only to have me yank him out of harm’s way just a heartbeat before disaster?

For that matter, how many strangers’ kids had I saved from certain concussions, and who the hell was supposed to be watching them?!

I was popular with the young mothers. They weren’t used to the sight of a man who really knew the drill at a playground, and probably took me to be an unemployed loser with a deeply nurturing soul and a wife with a good job.

I learned more about females on the playground bench than I’d ever learned on bar stools. The way they spoke here was both matter-of-fact and sexy. One young mother in particular confided in me quite often. She had a toddling daughter and an infant son, and was in the middle of telling me about the trouble she and her husband were having with a downstairs neighbor’s late-night loud music when she suddenly reached inside her blouse and pulled out a breast to suckle the boy.

She never broke stride in the telling of the tale, but there was so much blood pounding in my head that the rest of her story was inaudible to me. I just couldn’t believe it—a beautiful, perfect young breast out there in the full light of morning. Not a hint of an effort to shield it from view as she plugged it into the greedy boy’s mouth.

I managed to wrench my eyes from the sight of it as she carried on with her story, talking to me as if I were her best friend in the universe, and suddenly I realized that what I’d been hearing for years was true. You can buy them drinks, you can buy them cars, you can buy them houses, you can buy them the world, but it’s all bullshit. Just listen to a woman. That’s really all they ask, at least until it’s time to get a car and a house.

Right there on that bench, I suddenly fell into a deep funk, and it took me a minute to figure out why. It was because I suspected that the only way I was ever going to see any woman’s breasts (besides Doris’s) was here on the playground, at feeding time. I was missing out—and worse, what I wanted was just inches from my mouth.

So close, and yet so far. It was all just a matter of time, and it broke my heart to look at my happy son up there on the swings, knowing that one day, he was going to be hit by the night train of divorce. No way to avoid it, unless Doris died, or I died.

I knew Doris wasn’t going to die. The average academic lives longer than a Galápagos turtle, and she was no exception. If anyone was going to die, it was me.

Lots of newspapermen keel over before they hit the big five-oh, but you can’t count on it. My health had always been good, and there was no sign of that changing. Of course, I could kill myself, but what would be a worse thing for Jake to live with—divorce, or a father who did himself in?

Clearly, there was only one way this was going to shake out. The clock was ticking for Doris and me. Someday that gleeful little boy was going to live through a divorce.

He doesn’t suspect it yet, though. Just look at him, pumping his legs as he soars higher and higher!

“I’m going to the moon!” he shrieks to nobody in particular, and it doesn’t matter if nobody believes it, because in his mind, Jake is already there.

Oh, Christ. What a beautiful child he is, and just look at his pathetic father, sitting on the bench all hunched over, as if he’s on a bar stool at last call! Doesn’t he know how lucky he is to have a boy like that? And who could believe that just minutes ago, the father of such a beautiful, gleeful boy could have been entertaining thoughts of suicide?